Understanding Stuttering: Myths, Facts and When to Talk to an SLP
As a parent, hearing your child stutter can feel a bit unsettling. You may wonder whether it’s something they’ll grow out of or if it’s time to seek professional help. The good news is that stuttering is fairly common, and it’s something that can often be worked through with the right support. However, there are many myths about stuttering that can make it harder to know when to act. In this article, we’ll bust some of the most common stuttering myths and help you figure out when it’s time to call in a Speech-Language Pathologist (SLP).
Myth #1: Stuttering is Just a Phase
You might have heard that stuttering is just something kids go through and that they’ll eventually outgrow it (this is known as developmental stuttering). While it’s true that some children do naturally stop stuttering as they get older, that doesn’t always happen. About 5-10% of kids will stutter at some point, and while 75% of them might outgrow it, the rest may continue to stutter into their school years and beyond.If your child has been stuttering for several months without any signs of improvement, or if you notice that their speech is getting worse, it might be time to get the advice of an SLP. Early intervention can make a big difference!
Myth #2: Stuttering Is Caused by Anxiety or Nervousness
It’s a common myth that stuttering is simply a sign that a child is nervous or anxious (I feel anxious just thinking how untrue this myth is!). While it’s true that stuttering can get worse in stressful situations (like speaking in front of a class or when they’re feeling rushed), anxiety is not the main cause. At the moment, researchers have linked stuttering to a neurological condition related to how the brain coordinates speech. Yes, kids who stutter might feel anxious, especially if they’ve been teased or are struggling to get their words out, but anxiety doesn’t cause stuttering. It can, however, make it harder to manage. That’s where an SLP can help by teaching kids both how to manage their stuttering and cope with the anxiety that can come with it.
Myth #3: Talking Slowly Will Help Them Stop Stuttering
You’ve probably heard the advice to just “slow down” when speaking with your child. While slowing down your speech may make them feel less pressure in the moment, it’s not a long-term fix. In fact, it can have the opposite effect, leading to more pressure and frustration. Speech therapy addresses the root cause of stuttering by teaching specific strategies to help kids speak more smoothly. It’s less about “talking slower” and more about helping them build confidence in how they speak, while also learning strategies to manage their speech.
Myth #4: Stuttering Means Your Child Is Not Smart
This is one of the most damaging myths about stuttering. People often think that children who stutter are somehow less intelligent or capable. In reality, stuttering has nothing to do with a person’s intelligence. Many children who stutter are highly intelligent and do well academically.Stuttering is simply a speech disorder, not an indicator of cognitive ability. Many famous individuals who stutter, like actor James Earl Jones or former President Joe Biden, have had incredibly successful careers. So, if your child stutters, it’s important to remember that their brain is just as sharp as anyone else’s; it just takes a little extra effort for them to get their words out.
Myth #5: It’s Your Fault - You’re Too Critical or Stressful
As a parent, it’s natural to worry that you’ve done something wrong if your child is stuttering. But don’t blame yourself; stuttering isn’t caused by anything you did or didn’t do. It’s generally a mix of genetic and neurological factors. If you have a family member who stutters, your child may be more likely to stutter, too.However, family dynamics do matter. How you respond to your child’s stuttering can make a big difference. The best thing you can do is create a supportive environment where your child feels comfortable talking without fear of judgment. Try to stay calm, be patient, and avoid finishing their sentences. Your relaxed attitude will help them feel more confident and reduce any anxiety they may be experiencing.
Myth #6: Only Severe Stuttering Needs Help
Some parents think that they don’t need to worry about their child’s stutter unless it’s “really bad”. But even mild stuttering can benefit from early speech therapy. In fact, the earlier a child starts therapy, the more likely they are to see lasting improvements.If your child’s stuttering is affecting their ability to make friends, participate in class, or express themselves clearly, it’s worth getting an evaluation from an SLP. Early intervention can help your child develop strategies to manage their speech and boost their confidence in social situations.
When Should You Consider Seeing an SLP?
So, how do you know when it’s time to seek help from a Speech-Language Pathologist? Here are a few signs that it might be a good idea:
- Stuttering Lasts for More Than Six Months: If your child has been stuttering for a while and it’s not showing signs of improving, it’s time to get an assessment.
- Physical Tension: If you notice that your child is showing signs of physical tension; like blinking rapidly, clenching their fists, or having trouble catching their breath while speaking. These are signs that their stuttering is causing stress.
- Difficulty Communicating: If stuttering is preventing your child from participating in conversations, making friends, or expressing themselves clearly, it’s time to get help.
- Family History of Stuttering: If stuttering runs in your family, your child might be more likely to experience it as well. Getting an SLP involved early can help.
- Late Onset: If stuttering starts after the age of 3 and a half, or if it starts getting worse as your child gets older, it’s worth having an SLP evaluate their speech.
What Happens During A Speech-Language Pathology Assessment?
If you decide to consult an SLP, don’t worry - there’s no need to stress. The process is designed to be supportive and educational for both you and your child. The SLP will start by evaluating your child’s speech patterns and might ask you questions about your family’s history with stuttering. Based on this evaluation, the SLP will create a personalized therapy plan. This could include strategies for speaking more fluently, techniques to manage anxiety around speaking, and training for you, as parents, on how to support your child at home.
Stuttering can be a frustrating experience for both kids and parents, but the good news is that it’s something that can be managed. By understanding the myths and when to seek help, you’re already on the right track. Remember, stuttering doesn’t define your child, and with the right support, they can grow into confident communicators. If you’re concerned about your child’s speech, an SLP can provide the guidance you need to make sure your child has the tools they need to succeed. Our team at Key to Speech works with children and adults who stutter. Our team will be happy to help. You can find more information through our website at www.keytospeech.ca or email us at hello@keytospeech.ca to book an appointment.
Don’t be afraid to ask questions, seek support, and remember that every step toward understanding and managing stuttering is a step toward better communication for your child.
Victoria Robert, Speech-Language Pathologist at Key to Speech
